Part of our human experience is to have relationships with others. Whether they be family, friendships, lovers, enemies or complete strangers. Since relationships are about relating, I guess you could say that we're all 'relatives' to some degree. Yet, we rarely ponder these relation-ships while we're in them. It's usually when the relationship ends that we contemplate, why this person was in our lives.
Last week we said good bye to a dear friend who left this world far too early. While attending the memorial service, we were all searching our brains for answers as to why he left us so suddenly. I've always believed that people come into our lives for a reason, but when I turned over the program and found these wise words, the explanation was profound.
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you figure out which one it is,
you will know what to do for each person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON,
it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty;
to provide you with guidance and support;
to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend, and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON,
because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it. It is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons;
things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person,
and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Is there one relationship that's more clear to you after reading this? Tell me about it in the comments below